Profile safety: Keeping your online profile safe

Safe online profile

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Creating your online profile can be fun and very exciting. In a way, you get to talk about yourself while posting these information for views in the web. It’s like chatting with a long lost friend, you get to talk about a lot of things that you lost track of time and before you know it, you’re already late for supper. You might get a little carried away that you might give too much information than what is needed. There is no doubt that online dating is fun and interesting but it should never be a lobby for your personal information to run. You never know when you will catch a stalker’s attention.

Username check

What is more eye-catching that sexyvixen01? But ask yourself, are you really catching the eyes of the people that you intend to catch? If you use deliciousmebunny then it might only attract people who are interested in short-term relationships. And if you use iwantyoutomarryme, you might be getting attention from guys who are looking for long-term relationships. You need to be careful with choosing your username because the meaning that they convey can be a huge factor to the people that will be viewing your online profile.

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Password shield

Along with your username, your password also serves as a gateway to your online profile so you better be significantly careful in choosing your password. Make sure that it is something that you will always remember. But, something other people won’t be able to guess. With the advanced technology nowadays, scammers and hackers have the ability to easily gain access into someone’s profile so be very careful with choosing your password. It shouldn’t be related to the information that you have disclosed in your profile and might as well be something that only you know about.

Personal information should be kept “Personal”.

In online dating, your main goal is to attract people that can meet your standards. Attracting people doesn’t include posting your cellphone number and address into your profile. Posting your personal details will not only put you in danger but it can also make you look desperate. People might

take advantage of you and immediately contact you because they know you are in need of a partner. Make them chase you, if they want your number then they have to work hard for it. Remember that you don’t know everybody that can view your profile. Honesty is always the best policy but you might need to save your personal information until you are 101% sure about the person you are giving them to.

Your safety is your friends’ safety as well.

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When hackers or scammers  got hold of your profile, they have all the access they could get from your profile. They can use your profile and pretend that they are the account holder. Some scammers use the strategy of asking help from someone else’’s profile friends. They use the profile to ask for help because they will they your friends that you are in jeopardy and in need of immediate help. Of course, your friends don’t know that it is a scammer and not you they are talking to. In their hopes to help you, they will fall prey to the scammer using your profile and give that hacker the money they asked for. You don’t need further explanation on this so you better be careful with your profile. You don’t want your friends to be robbed, do you?

Warnings About Internet Dating

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Internet dating is the trend nowadays. A lot of people are hooked to it, in fact my friends and even some of my co-workers are actually into it. I can even say that they’re obsessed in it. I couldn’t it but i think it’s ridiculous for them to spend every night after work in front of their computer and search for their potential match online.  Look at it this way, why would you spend the night in front of an online list of people when you could go out and meet people face to face?

Don’t get me wrong, Internet dating has already given way for people to meet their partners and they are actually living their lives quite happily. But, with that in mind, you still have to consider the risks involved in Internet dating. Let me lead you through it.

The success rate is low.

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Yes there were stories that people were able to meet their soul mates online, but how many were actually successful enough to last in a long term relationship? How many were able to get married and live a life together? How many days, months or years have they spent in Internet dating before they were able to meet their partners? If you analyze it carefully, it actually took them a lot of time before they were able to meet the one they were looking for online. I’m not discouraging you but if the long wait can be frustrating. When you go out and meet other people, its just a matter of weeks or even months of constant dating. You don’t have to keep on spending every night searching through profiles and looking for your match. When you meet him outside, you can immediately get to know him.

You’re genuine but are they?

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Everybody can access Internet dating sites and you never know if the person you are attracted to is not the one in the profile photo. Scammers and hackers are scattered everywhere and they lobby mostly in Internet dating sites because they know that beautiful persons are the weakness of the people seeking partners in life. Oh don’t tell me you don’t want to meet that guy with a cute smile? Their profile photo is that only way for you to assess how they look and scammers take advantage of this. They use very attractive photos of innocent people and use this profile to ask money from people. So you have to be very careful when engaging in online dating, you never know if it’s a scammer.